Wake up call

I have a friend that has been having an extremely hard time with herself and understanding life. She usually doesnt listen to me but I talked to her today and she got it, I thought that what I told her would benefit others too.

I explained to her that life is like a big long test, and when things start going wrong they are like exams, and if you fail them you have to retake them over and over until you learn it and pass the test. Then you move on to a new test. That is what makes you stronger and wiser, lesson after lesson you prove yourself.

She has done a lot of things that were not right and it has her looking bad to others. So I explained to her that life is long. That she cannot clean up a mess as fast as she made it. I told her over time if she starts to pick up all the pieces and put them where they belong and were she likes them, that people see that and what she did in the past fades. That people will see shes picking up her life and that is what matters, the present.

You need to make sure you take care of yourself, and do things that is going to make you happy. Because when you're happy you can make many others happy. Stop doing things that make you feel wrongful becuase somebody else wants that. Its your life and as long as you learn from things and move on, that is what matters. And the people that cause the drama, will hopefully learn to do the same. If not, that isn't your fault, some people see things differently. You are not that person, so you cannot change who they are... Be understanding and see the full picture, always say the truth.